How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? - A Nairalander

My 2016 new year resolution was to quit all these dramatic relationship and go into "friends with benefits" in Early 2017 I met a lady and we got close quick but how to tell her what I wanted was the problem, to me I felt it's like asking someone to be a prostitute, Because of that I ran away from her

Now I've met this one in one church at cross over night on 31st December, we started getting close real quick, I've made up my mind to tell her what I wanted, on valentine day she was the one that took me out and started telling me how her previous guy broke her heart and how she wouldn't want that to happen again, I just got weak

Please how can one tell a girl he wants "friends with benefits" or where can I find one, does it even exist?