Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage?
As for me I'm of the opinion that "Sex before marriage" best suits our present age. I will use this short true life story to buttress my point. Please read this carefully and it should be a lesson to learn from, it's a true life story that happened to someone in my neighborhood just few months ago. The guy involved is a devoted church worker so he held strictly the church's "Sex after marriage"
It all started with "he's my brother in the Lord and she's my brother in the Lord". I got attracted to this my sister in the Lord Sis Funmibi, a devoted church worker as myself from the church but from another branch. So I thought to myself marrying a born again Sister from the church should be the best any man can ask for. After studying her character and her devotion to the church, I made my intention known to her. Sister Funmibi accepted my marriage proposal and fews days later we made our intentions known to our family and consequently the church. I was so excited that I have hit a jackpot for finding a lady like Sister Funmibi, as a church boy that I'm I must get married to her first before she can come into my house. So I kept fantasizing about our wedding night and her becoming my wife, so we further speed the marriage preparation up. I have always wanted to meet with my Fiancee's family church pastor for counseling but she will always stop me telling me that after all we are not getting there. To cut the story short, she chose a random church instead for our wedding. At this stage I have been blinded by her charms all I could think of is to bring her into my house.
Our wedding night wasn't as romantic as I thought it would be, we started making out kissing and carresing. I noticed each time I tried to press her left breast she she cry's out in pains saying " Please don't touch the left breast, you can touch the right one". I was like " waris happening here", she wouldn't even allow me to open the breast to see not to talk of sucking. We would have just sex without intimate pre-intimacy, I was thinking maybe it's because of her church background or that she's not yet used to me that's why she's behaving that way to me. She even finds it difficult to UnCloth or get dressed in my presence, I was like with time she should be able to change. Couple of months later Sis Funmibi my wife started falling sick, she will get better today but days later gets sick again. I will try to inquire from her Doctor what's exactly happening to my wife, he will mention one random common sickness. Until one day the doctor finally opened up to me that my wife has breast cancer. I was really devastated, I really felt cheated and deceived. She knew all these while that she has breast cancer and yet she kept it away from me. After battling to save her medically, spending the bulk of my resources to save her life, I finally lost her.
Now choose for yourself which is more ideal in our present world?
It all started with "he's my brother in the Lord and she's my brother in the Lord". I got attracted to this my sister in the Lord Sis Funmibi, a devoted church worker as myself from the church but from another branch. So I thought to myself marrying a born again Sister from the church should be the best any man can ask for. After studying her character and her devotion to the church, I made my intention known to her. Sister Funmibi accepted my marriage proposal and fews days later we made our intentions known to our family and consequently the church. I was so excited that I have hit a jackpot for finding a lady like Sister Funmibi, as a church boy that I'm I must get married to her first before she can come into my house. So I kept fantasizing about our wedding night and her becoming my wife, so we further speed the marriage preparation up. I have always wanted to meet with my Fiancee's family church pastor for counseling but she will always stop me telling me that after all we are not getting there. To cut the story short, she chose a random church instead for our wedding. At this stage I have been blinded by her charms all I could think of is to bring her into my house.
Our wedding night wasn't as romantic as I thought it would be, we started making out kissing and carresing. I noticed each time I tried to press her left breast she she cry's out in pains saying " Please don't touch the left breast, you can touch the right one". I was like " waris happening here", she wouldn't even allow me to open the breast to see not to talk of sucking. We would have just sex without intimate pre-intimacy, I was thinking maybe it's because of her church background or that she's not yet used to me that's why she's behaving that way to me. She even finds it difficult to UnCloth or get dressed in my presence, I was like with time she should be able to change. Couple of months later Sis Funmibi my wife started falling sick, she will get better today but days later gets sick again. I will try to inquire from her Doctor what's exactly happening to my wife, he will mention one random common sickness. Until one day the doctor finally opened up to me that my wife has breast cancer. I was really devastated, I really felt cheated and deceived. She knew all these while that she has breast cancer and yet she kept it away from me. After battling to save her medically, spending the bulk of my resources to save her life, I finally lost her.
Now choose for yourself which is more ideal in our present world?
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